Online Dating in the Pandemic times

The pandemic situation, lack of social connections, lack of opportunities to make real connections, it’s all pushing youngsters more and more into the online dating space.

Loneliness has been the pre-existing pandemic long before Covid took over. So its not surprising that people are seeking connections online – through online dating apps.

Some seek a simple connection and some may seek more. Some may have a casual attitude and some a serious attitude towards relationships. Each person may seek something different in online dating. Its important that you be clear about your own expectations and align with the other person before getting involved at a level that you plan to.

People do find its easier and convenient to strike a conversation online. Video calls are safer given the situation. Having said that what is the possibility of finding your partner through online dating? What are the risks involved?

As a counsellor I do see many clients who come in with heart breaks or who have been ghosted or cheated by a person with a false profile in online dating apps (catfishing). Though heart breaks and ghosting can happen in real world also, it is more possible and feasible in the online dating world.

Though there are some benefits of safety in the online world, before you get more involved with the other person, its better to be aware of, consider the risks and take safety measures appropriately. Be aware of your boundaries and what you are willing to share with the other person. Don’t get pressured to do things that you don’t want to.

Inner Dawn Counsellor Kala Balasubramanian’s views featured in Deccan Herald
7-Aug-21.