Category: Marriage / Relationships

What if you are not the first choice, first priority?

All of us yearn to be special. To be special in someone else’s eyes, is part of our nature to seek validation from others. But you might have found yourself at some point in time, to not be the first

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“I am sorry”- Apologize in a way that brings you closer

“I am sorry”  – Is that a complete apology? Conflicts and disagreements are a regular part of any relationship.  Talking about couple relationships, it is how the couple deal with the conflict and resolve it, that would determine whether they

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Love at first sight-Soul mates in few weeks?Is it Love or Love Bombing?

Love at first sight? Soul mates in a few weeks? Is this Love or Love Bombing? In general all new romantic relationships are intense, exciting, captivating, makes you crave for each other more, wanting to spend a lot of time

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What is Co-dependence? How does it happen in relationships?

  I cant live without him(or her). I cant breathe without him. I live for him. I feel worthy because he loves me and he needs me.  He cant do anything with out me, he needs me in every little

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Taking Relationship for granted: What can you do about it?

Are you taking your relationship for granted or vice versa? This is one of the key causes of relationship deterioration.  What can you do? In the initial phase of your relationship things are so exciting you are looking forward to

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Finance, Money Matters – Should you discuss with your partner?

Should you discuss finances or money matters with your potential partner or your partner? Yes absolutely. When you are considering spending your life time together it is important that you discuss finances or money related matters with your partner. Whether

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Love Fizzled out? Are you taking your partner for granted?

Why does love Fizzle out? One of the main culprits – taking each other for granted. Rahul and Vibha (all names and the case details are fictional) were so much in love. They had a wonderful courtship period of 2

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Bullying in Adults. How it impacts you and your relationship?

Bullying can take many shapes and forms. It can be a behaviour to harm or humiliate the other person, to make the other person feel shame, fear or insecurity. But bullying is not random. It is deliberate, it is intended

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Hooked to porn ? How does it affect you and your relationship.

Flipping through old issues of Debonair or Play Boy are gone with the olden days. A man would drool over the pictures for hours, fantasizing about the woman and the possibility of a mind blowing sexual encounter. In the absence

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We don’t feel the love anymore. Is the marriage over?

Heraclitus, a Greek philosopher, is quoted as saying “change is the only constant in life“. Love is a key component for a fulfilling relationship/marriage. But even Romantic Love keeps changing throughout life. As a relationship counsellor I see couples who

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